It’s been two years and 2023 is coming to a close. Looking back at this past year I feel satisfied knowing that almost everything I did was consistent with my values and contributed positively to my long term goals. I ended my relationship after finally accepting that he will never admit the error of his ways and apologize for everything he put me through, and accepting that staying in that relationship to eventually get my revenge was not the kind of example I wanted to show my kids. I went back to him, and after the second reconciliation I ended it for good. Seven years of turmoil, and the official pathetic reason of our breakup argument was the misinterpretation of the acronym “OFC”.

Since the breakup, my life has been peaceful and wonderful, my days revolve around my kids, our home, and work. I am grateful to see my kids resilience, that they recognize our home as a safe and stable place, and are comfortable talking openly to each other and me, as well as trusting my guidance through their teenage years. Recently I received an award at my second job, and am regularly appreciated at both jobs for my hard work and doing a good job. Socially, I am